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Author Archives: paulefallon
Mental Health III: You Were Never Sick, Get Yourself Better
The third in a series of five essays about Mental Health to celebrate the dog days of August. Mental Health I: Why I Write Mental Health II: Suicide is Painless When you have a substitute school bus driver, it doesn’t … Continue reading
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Tagged CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, homosexuality, mental health, psychotherapy
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Mental Health II: Suicide is Painless
The second in a series of five essays about Mental Health to celebrate the dog days of August. Mental Health I: Why I Write On Friday March 28, 1975 I tried to kill myself. I failed. I hadn’t failed at … Continue reading
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Tagged CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, homosexuality, mental health, psychotherapy
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Mental Health I: Why Do I Write?
The first in a series of five essays about Mental Health to celebrate the dog days of August. I’d been writing words and sentences since the first grade. As a person of engineering temperament, I expressed myself with logic and … Continue reading
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Tagged CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, homosexuality, mental health, psychotherapy
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A New Narrative
We are stuck. On one hand liberals, or progressives, or left-wing, or Democrats, or whatever you want to call them; are hell-bent on subdividing our nation into ever tightly defined ‘identities.’ According to them, I am a cis-gender gay white … Continue reading
Posted in United States
Tagged Conservative, Haiti, Liberal, Mutual respect, political divide, United States Politics
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1776: All Over Again
My God, Paul, how many times have you seen this show? The thought synapsed through my brain as the lights dimmed on a covey of actors in revolutionary era brocade and buckles belting, “For God Sake, John, Sit Down!” My … Continue reading
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Tagged 1776 musical, ART, ART Cambridge, Diane Paulus, musical theater, non-traditional casting
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I Dreamed a Dream
Sunday morning, July 3. Walking to the gym through a deserted city. Seventy degrees. Overcast. Listless. I love summer in the city. The Whole Foods crowd has Tesla’d off to their beaches and mountains. Leaving behind quiet stillness, a smattering … Continue reading
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Tagged Cambridge MA, Homeless, Hope, I Dreamed a Dream, Les Miserables
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This Independence Day: Free the Territories
It’s not often that Supreme Court Justice Neil Gorsuch and I land on the same side of an issue. When it happens, the subject in question must occupy that obscure tangent where progressive ideology and libertarian thinking meet. Points of … Continue reading
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Tagged American Samoa, Guam, Neil Gorsuch, Puerto Rico, US Territories
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The People’s Republic Becomes the Province of Bureaucratic Oligarchs
From my window I see the new tree that the City of Cambridge planted in the space between the sidewalk and the curb. Beyond that is the fresh pavement patch where they installed the new gas line. Across the street … Continue reading
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Tagged Bureaucracy, Cambridge MA, Public Engagement, Public Infrastructure
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Summer Solstice Celebration of Bicycles!
“The bicycle is a curious vehicle. Its passenger is its engine.” John Howard, Olympic cyclist, set a speed record of 152.2 mph in 1985 It’s the longest day of the year up here beyond 42 degrees north. The weather is … Continue reading
Unsolicited Fatherly Advice
In time for Father’s Day, I read this vignette by Indrani Sen, Culture Editor for The New York Times. A thirteen-year-old girl, Sasha, asked her parents for permission to skip school. Her father, Matt Gross replied, “Not allowed. Nope!” and … Continue reading
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Tagged Father's Day, Indrani Sen, Matt Gross, parenting, parenting advice, unsolicited advice
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